(I should say from the jump that Iām fully aware that this is an odd post. This is me acknowledging that and then making it anyway!)
Hi, Cambridge and Cambridge-adjacent folks.
Iām a 35-year-old guy ā American, though more recently based in Toronto ā who suddenly finds himself living here in this deeply charming place while going through a difficult divorce. I feel lucky to be here and fortunate to have the time and space to reorient myself and decide what happens next. Iām making myself leave the house every day, taking long walks along the river. All in all, I am managing all right, or anyway close enough to all right that I can see all right from wherever it is I am, except for the fact that I desperately miss Maisy.
Maisy, our unbelievably sweet and affectionate cat, with whom Iād spent three years of nights falling asleep with her and three years of mornings waking up beside her. My partner is not opposed to my taking Maisy at some point in the future, but I knew that doing so at this juncture would have immediately thinned out my search for a place to stay, and so I find myself without her, very much missing her, and attempting to fall asleep each night with a voice memo I made of her purring on a loop. (Can you believe Iām single?)
Iām not even entirely sure what it is Iām asking here. Maybe itās as simple as, you know, āHey, Reddit people who have lived in this area a long time and know things I couldnāt possibly know: if you found yourself itching to spend time with friendly (or not that friendly, thatās fine, too) felines, what would your course of action be?ā
It obviously has occurred to me that I could go to an animal shelter, but I have the distinct impression that those (tragically understaffed & underfunded) spaces are probably not eager to allow in for pet visits someone who has no ability or intention to adopt at present. (And nor should they be eager to, of course; the available time and staff bandwidth should absolutely be spent on folks with serious intentions.)
Grateful in advance for any thoughts or suggestions, and grateful, too, for the kindness & friendliness they have been extended to me here already in the week since I arrived.
(Iād post a photo of Maisy, but I truly donāt know how!)
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